Resolved Question: Guys: is this a good idea or no [@dults only]?

5 September 2010, 5:50 pm

Alright, so I'll be honest, I'm kinda in the mood right now. I'm seeing this guy on the DL who's studying for his master's at my university, and he's super cool and laid back, and we've made sure to make it clear to one-another that neither of us is looking for a relationship, just fun. We've been seeing each other for about 3 months. I usually go over to his place once to twice a week. I call him in advance, see if he has company, and if he's down I arrange to come by at a scheduled time. He's fairly dominant. Interestingly, though, he usually does not call me; I call him. But once I'm at his place, I let him take control. Nothing too crazy, though, lol. Well, tonight, like I said, I'm feeling really hot, so I want to just stop by his place unannounced and, well, bl0w his mind if you get what I mean... --- But I've never done anything like that before, in terms of the whole unannounced visit. Additionally, I know that lately he's been pretty slammed with school work since the school year just started. Likewise, he drove to Denver and back yesterday (10 hrs round trip) to go and look at ski stuff, and I know that might have wore him out. Basically, my only worry is that he'll just be tired and not interested. I'm not so much worried about my confidence as I am giving him or pressuring him into something that doesn't sound too hot at the moment. Also, this last week I've kinda been at his place a lot. Tuesday I came by just to study. Wednesday I went by and we did our thing, and Friday I went by and we did our thing and went to dinner. It's 6pm Sunday here, and I'm thinking of going by around 8. What are the odds that I'd be overwhelming him? And for those of you guys with a somewhat dominant side, how would you feel about your girl just showing up and pouncing on you, with her in a sense being in control at least for the first 15 minutes or so? Thoughts? Danny: I guess that might have been poor wordage on my part: I'd be on my knees the whole time; he'd essentially have control, but we'd be doing what I decided I wanted, not necc. what he decided, if that makes sense.... Read More »

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